Love is a person's strength to push up. I can't imagine and can't imagine. If a person lacks love, what he will look like and what kind of results will be, it is a terrible thing for me. So I think: love, not only can be expressed in language, sometimes language just makes love seem more pale. Love is a true natural revelation, without affectation, and finally must be implemented in specific actions, can be said to be the inevitable result of love. Throughout a dream of Red Mansions, it is written about Baodai's love tragedy, which makes people tear, and makes us heartbroken. Rather than "wood stone alliance", not "golden and jade" love, let people engrave.0. But you can read the whole novel, but you can not find a between Baodai about "I love you" words, in addition to the times wish group, I think this reflects the master's high-level. So in Bajin's works, there is such a drama about love between Baodai: "Jia Baoyu to Xiaoxiang tears like rain, the pale stem is cold and moss wet full of yellow flowers.

Brother loves you for your high and gentle character, brother loves you to be dignified and beautiful.

Jia Baoyu only cried the gut break mute, did not see sister Lin half a sentence to answer. "

The name of the play is "Baoyu crying *, which is very touching if you listen to the play, and it will be appreciated from the perspective of art.". But I always feel that the action of "Lindaiyu burning manuscript and infatuation" is more deeply touching. The despair and helplessness of love can not be expressed in any language. So in my life, I don't want to say love, but rather do that is a little bit of love. But today, I would like to combine some of my life small things, to modern people to talk about my understanding of love and marriage.

Not long ago, my heart-shaped vanity mirror had a crack in a pattern, which my daughter found.

I have discussed with my husband to buy a bookcase. I wish that the books in my family were too messy. My book husband's books and daughter's books were everywhere, and the sofa on the bed on the desk was full. Although reading is a common hobby of our family, this disorderly state of books has affected our orderly life and good mood. In order to change this situation, we decided to buy a bookcase.

The bookcase was bought, which is a bookcase with three doors of pine wood. The three doors are inlaid with clean and transparent glass. The books in it can be seen at a glance. The color of bookcase is the natural color of wood, with clear pattern and natural generous. We are very satisfied with the bookcase, which is a fragrance of pine wood. But the question is coming. Where is it suitable to put the bookcase? My husband and I discussed it, and thought it was most appropriate to put it in the southeast corner of the bedroom, but it would take the dressing table there to move to another bedroom. After the discussion, we did not hesitate, but took action decisively according to the plan.

As we were ecstatic about the arrival of the new bookcase, one morning, her daughter suddenly told her husband that the vanity mirror on the dresser had a crack. This kind of vanity mirror is customized by my husband and I, who asked professional vanity mirror. My husband and I rushed to the bedroom to check. We saw a crack in the middle of the heart-shaped vanity mirror, which was inclined. My husband is heartache. I want to know that this is the furniture we bought when we married. It is of great significance. I saw the face of my husband like a layer of frost, which is very ugly. I want to comfort her and I don't know what to say for a while. After a while, the husband said to himself, "this will not be any ominous omen?" I said, "the brush God of the road of the nonsense, but how bad is the mirror?" I was also filled with doubts, quietly asked my daughter: 'is it that you accidentally broke the ball in your bedroom? " The daughter's grievance was full of complaints and denied. I asked my husband carefully, "did you accidentally pat the fly in the mirror?" The husband looked at me with a confused look: "do you suspect I broke it. Is it necessary for me to hide the facts for this reason? You won't break it, the thief yells to catch it, right? "So, the family got suspicious of each other. I said, "since it is so, think of a solution!" "Just carry it out and throw it away. The mirror is broken, it's bad!" the husband said I didn't make a voice, thinking, is there no other solution? I looked at the split pattern mirror silently, a beautiful memory poured into my heart, and it has been six years since I married my husband. This vanity mirror has been with us for six years. It is a wedding gift for us by the sweat money of their parents who hired them to work for us. The mirror is heart-shaped, which means that the heart is printed and the heart is as clear as mirror, symbolizing pure love. Under the mirror is the petal like structure, each side of three petals, like the hand to hold the heart-shaped vanity mirror, means that pure love needs careful care. Is it like this when the six years of love is thrown away, I am unwilling to find a remedy. The easiest way is to change a new mirror, and to remove the broken mirror and change it with a fine painting. But we can't do it ourselves. We need to find professionals to help. I still try to think about it. It is simple to find brush people to help, but it is easy to spend money or have a long time of feeling in debt. I think we can solve it by myself. I suddenly remembered an article I read about the story of the tail skirt. The story tells that there is a business house selling skirts. A skirt has been put down with a hole somehow. In order to sell the skirt, the owner of the house made several holes in the skirt hem for his own sake. Then he decorated the hole carefully, named "the tail skirt". It sold a good price, And there are many people who come to buy "windtail skirts.". Thinking of this, I immediately found them in the room to see if there are any suitable materials to make up for the cracks in the vanity mirror. Suddenly, I saw that my husband bought a plastic handbag from Agan A's house, with a bright red and delicate rose on both sides. It looks beautiful and beautiful under the background of green leaves. If I cut them down and stick them to the cracks in the mirror, it is not perfect ！ I told Wen Fu that my husband immediately smiled and expressed his great approval. I'll find scissors right away, and the baby cuts it up. My daughter also helped to pay attention to it. I said that the flowers could be pasted on the mirror with double-sided glue. I immediately affirmed her idea and gave her the task of double-sided adhesive to finish. The daughter was happy to take the lead. After a while, I cut a rose, and then my daughter took the double-sided adhesive. My daughter and I cooperated with each other, and pasted the first rose to the crack of the mirror. After the paste was finished, I invited the husband who was making dinner to see how the effect was. The husband was very satisfied with it. Then I pointed out the things that should be noticed when the next rose was pasted, and then went to busy with his business It's too late. My daughter and I spent some more time, and perfectly pasted the second rose on the crack, and the cracks in the mirror were completely covered.

In order to make the image more vivid and beautiful, I cut several green leaves and pasted them. At this time, the husband came to inspect the work and put forward constructive suggestions, saying that it would be better to cut and paste the words "Rose". I said: 'you can do it Husband also did not refuse, took scissors to three to five cut two, we found a good place together, put the word "Rose" in the right place. Then our family enjoyed it together. The rose in the mirror was really beautiful, and it was more beautiful and elegant. The mirror had these two roses, just like a beautiful woman wearing a new dowry, and it was more colorful and beautiful and shameful. Dad excitedly said to her, "I have never given your mother roses for so many years. Today is a wish." I turned back and saw my husband's face full of happiness, and the rose in the mirror.

I feel so much that who says that the broken mirror can not be reunited? We can not attribute the cause of things to objective. If we make more efforts in Wang Guan, maybe the marriage smoke which has experienced hardships and setbacks will have more charm, stable as rock and Mount Tai.

In recent years, the divorce rate in our country has been on the rise. Many young people regard marriage as a child play. They can not say anything but have no reason for their feelings.

Our thoughts are open, but our attitude and responsibility to life can not be taken seriously, which is totally different. I think it is more about the problems in the communication way of our young people, such as being too selfish, being rude and unreasonable, lacking of cooperation spirit, etc. when you are with your lover, many things need to be shared to cultivate common commitment, and they need to think about the test from the perspective of each other. That is, we often say that there are many men who are reluctant to go on I don't want to buy clothes in the street. I know that many husbands give up. I have to go to the market to buy clothes. In fact, it's not right. As a husband, I should try to say this: "Mo love! Let's go shopping for you a dress today! I don't want to be said that I am a lazy woman, and I don't look like my husband. Today, you just have to drive me as a driver, and you don't have to worry about the rest. " I don't think that men will refuse such a request. For example, men generally don't like to wash dishes and chopsticks. You don't try to say this like this: "dear! You go and wash the dishes and chopsticks in the kitchen. I'll clean up our bed. Let's have a rest I think almost no man will refuse such a request for cooperation. I just want to say that the way we speak and do things will affect the quality of our marriage. Sometimes it is just a word, which can do things or bad things. We must pay attention to our own way of speaking and doing things. If we can, our marriage will be happier and happier!